Over the past several years helping dudes enhance their success with ladies, we see that one pattern again and againвЂ¦
Smart dudes donвЂ™t want to be вЂњbeginnersвЂќ at ANYTHING.
They donвЂ™t such as the basic concept of screwing upвЂ¦ especially if others are viewing.
They would like to keep this вЂњsmart guyвЂќ image of themselvesвЂ¦ so they really try to be вЂњThe ExpertвЂќ at whatever they are doing.
In place of saying вЂњHey, do you know what? IвЂ™m a newbie only at thatвЂ¦ just how do it is done by me? Exactly what can I do first? Exactly what next?вЂќвЂ¦ and rather than being completely okay with screwing up, making errors, and making a fool of on their own right in front of other people so that you can LEARNвЂ¦
вЂ¦they wonвЂ™t danger embarrassment, failure, or other people convinced that theyвЂ™re novicesвЂ¦ so that they crank up finally FAILING.
MORE INFORMATION JUST IN: ItвЂ™s OK to be a novice. MISTAKE #10: THEY CANвЂ™T COPE WITH FEAR ALONGSIDE THOUGHTS
A smart guyвЂ™s STRENGTH is their MIND.
Their WEAKNESS is normally their THOUGHTS.
Smart dudes in many cases are IMMOBILIZED by WORRY.
And because numerous smart dudes arenвЂ™t comfortable working with things theyвЂ™re maybe not proficient at, they simply repress or try to escape from fear.
Lots of men would instead perish in lonely isolation than acknowledge which they donвЂ™t learn how to cope with their thoughtsвЂ¦ or, GODFORBID, require help!
Hey, we went for a long time similar to this.
I understand exactly what it is like.
However the the truth is that any guy can learn how to handle as well as MASTER their feelings (even fear)вЂ¦ if he simply takes the effort and time to discover ways to do so. Continue Reading