Over the past several years helping dudes enhance their success with ladies, we see that one pattern again and again…
Smart dudes don’t want to be “beginners” at ANYTHING.
They don’t such as the basic concept of screwing up… especially if others are viewing.
They would like to keep this “smart guy” image of themselves… so they really try to be “The Expert” at whatever they are doing.
In place of saying “Hey, do you know what? I’m a newbie only at that… just how do it is done by me? Exactly what can I do first? Exactly what next?”… and rather than being completely okay with screwing up, making errors, and making a fool of on their own right in front of other people so that you can LEARN…
…they won’t danger embarrassment, failure, or other people convinced that they’re novices… so that they crank up finally FAILING.
MORE INFORMATION JUST IN: It’s OK to be a novice. MISTAKE #10: THEY CAN’T COPE WITH FEAR ALONGSIDE THOUGHTS
A smart guy’s STRENGTH is their MIND.
Their WEAKNESS is normally their THOUGHTS.
Smart dudes in many cases are IMMOBILIZED by WORRY.
And because numerous smart dudes aren’t comfortable working with things they’re maybe not proficient at, they simply repress or try to escape from fear.
Lots of men would instead perish in lonely isolation than acknowledge which they don’t learn how to cope with their thoughts… or, GODFORBID, require help!
Hey, we went for a long time similar to this.
I understand exactly what it is like.
However the the truth is that any guy can learn how to handle as well as MASTER their feelings (even fear)… if he simply takes the effort and time to discover ways to do so. Continue Reading