Annie Lane writes the Dear Annie advice line.
Dear Annie: my spouce and i have already been married for 43 years. We have a good life, approximately I was thinking. Recently I learned that an affair has been had by him. Once I asked him about this, he said it was just for eight months. And then he stated the good explanation ended up being because i might not start sex. Ha, that is a two means road. Anyhow, i did so some checking and discovered away so it had been for just two years. He’s got seen her on Christmas time and New 12 months’s Eve. In which he even came across together with her on the anniversary. I quickly learned after I had major lung surgery that he went to see her a few hours.
He has got cried and told me exactly just how sorry he could be. And just how foolish he had been for achieving this. Each day he has said he is sorry since I found this out. But listed here is my problem. First, she was lent by him some funds very little, but $400, and she reimbursed $100. He has got been calling her wanting the remainder. I came across out he called her, in which he told me yes, he desires their cash. He was told by me to forget it.
2nd, he has got had back surgery 3 x. The final one left him with numbness and weakness both in feet. And then he now has many form of erection dysfunction. So, i will be wondering so i can take care of him if he stopped seeing her to come to me. We have experienced sex, but he could be different somehow. It isn’t the exact same it really makes me wonder as it used to be, and.